No safe bet: when the ‘bug’ takes hold

IT begins innocently enough. A small flutter to pass the time with friends. Five dollars here, $10 there. But as Lynette explains, the gambling bug can hit anyone and spiral out of control.

“For a start it wasn’t a problem for me,” she recalls. “But I started to go more and more. I would spend my food money and then money that was meant for bills – it was really addictive.”

Lynette, who didn’t want her surname published, said the problem worsened over a two-year period and she had to approach the Salvation Army for food.

Playing the pokies was a way of escaping family problems and there was always the promise of a pay-out just around the corner.

It’s now four years since Lynette first got into real trouble and she credits Gambler’s Help with turning her life around.

While not an easy step, Lynette feels seeking outside help was the only way she could break the grip the machines had over her.

“I went to see a counsellor and we worked out ways I could slow down. We talked about things like self-exclusion. It might not work for everyone, but it’s what has worked for me.”

Gambler’s Help offers family and friends free counselling. Details: 1800858858.